"Memory is a net; one finds it full of fish when he takes it from the brook; but a dozen miles of water have run through it without sticking." -Oliver Wendell Holmes


Thursday, June 24, 2010

The One Good Thing About Summer School - Besides the Paycheck

I have time to read! Every day, I give my students 50 minutes to read and I teach two classes (one morning and one afternoon). So I get to read for 100 glorious minutes a day! This has really gotten me thinking about how I need to choose my books carefully - being so excited over mandatory reading time tells me there is no time to mess around with fluff I'm going to forget. I need books that make an impact! So I thought about what I've loved and what I've hated....bringing me to the (much more complicated than I thought) task of naming my top five books. Well it can't be done. No way. Never. What I can do is create a working list of books I love and I can tell three or four books that would definitely make the cut (at the moment anyway)! But to commit to that fifth book and leave out ALL OF THE OTHER BOOKS is a little too much for me to handle without some serious time devoted to this selection process...

So these are not set in stone and they appear in no particular order. Remember that this is the current list, not the be all, end all list. I repeat, it is not the "I would bring these books to the deserted island above all others list" but it's a darn good start. And I will say, I've decided to leave Harry Potter legacy off of my list altogether even though I love that world and wish I could visit Hogwarts for real :-)

My "Top" Four:

The Shadow of the Wind - Carlos Ruiz Zafon. Scandal, suspense, mystery, history, intricate story lines twisted together and fantastical ideas and love. The history of it fascinates me and I'm in awe of the complexity of the story.
The God of Small Things - Arhundhati Roy. It is so poetic and so full of voice. Absolutely immerses the reader in the culture of India's caste system and the reality of all consuming temptation - haunting after it's over. Sometimes I go to it for something old and familiar to read. For years, I have quoted this as my "favorite" book.
Olive Kitteridge - Elizabeth Strout. Is this because I just finished? I'm not sure. Only time will tell...But this is so real. The characters are so well written that you believe they are people you've met before. And there is no sugar coating the tough stuff - I love Olive even though she's a bit of a witch. And I understand the very human-ness of each character more than anything.
The Red Tent - Anita Diamant. This make me SO proud to be a woman. I have a Catholic upbringing to guide me through this very loosely biblical history so I know the characters and really enjoy reading it from a woman's perspective instead of the male centered view Bible stories normally include.
Others to consider as contenders:
Traveling Mercies by Anne Lamott
The Great Gatsby
The Poisonwood Bible
The Time Traveler's Wife
Snow Flower and the Secret Fan
Heart of Darkness
Mrs. Dalloway
The Hours
Me Talk Pretty One Day
Slammerkin
And there are so many more.....how does one decide?????

Tuesday, June 22, 2010

The Power of Words

We finalized our wedding ceremony today!   We are so lucky to be able to have a huge hand in the creation  of a ceremony that is uniquely us.  Our wonderful minister, Coletta, gave us some samples of ceremonies she has done and we added and combined and deleted and changed to our hearts' content. We were able to choose our own readings (from both scripture and secular readings) and the structure of the ceremony down to the wording in the closing salutation.   

Some of this may seem silly to those who just want to get it done and move on to the party.  Who really wants to grapple over "you may kiss your bride" and "now you may seal your vows with a kiss" (we went with the latter for sure), but from the beginning it has been essential to me to get the words just right.  Words are everything.  I'm so proud of it and so excited that we're able to have such a meaningful ceremony that so reflects who we are and how we feel about one another and the equal partnership of love and marriage.  

Only 25 days! 

Thursday, June 17, 2010

30 Days

So we are officially 30 days away from being a Mr. Foster and Mrs. Chipley-Foster!  I'm excited to marry my best friend and just cannot wait to be his wife.  

Now, if only I wasn't so stressed out....  There are not many people who read this blog and that is a-okay with me.  But because I know who reads it, I know those readers are people who care about me.  Let it be known:  There is really not anything anyone can do to put my mind at ease.  It's a financial game of chicken we're playing and other guy is winning.  All Matt and I can do is wait... and wait and wait and wait.  Those are the details for now.  

I think there may be some creative solutions in my future, but this is not the way I wanted to feel just 30 days before THE day.  

Keep your fingers crossed that we get our good news PRONTO. 

Other than this, we're moving along just fine.  Flowers confirmed. Menu confirmed.  Photography is good.  Dress fits like a glove.  Veil.  Tuxedos.  Hair.  Bridesmaids gifts. Ceremony planning.  Good, good, good, good and good.  

Tuesday, June 15, 2010

Matt is an "old man"

Happy 30th Birthday, Foster!  

Friday, June 11, 2010

Mom's Birthday Card

All scrapbook paper sewn onto a natural cardstock card and envelope :-)  

I really like this new hobby! 

Happy Birthday, Momma.