"Memory is a net; one finds it full of fish when he takes it from the brook; but a dozen miles of water have run through it without sticking." -Oliver Wendell Holmes


Thursday, December 31, 2009

'Tis the Season


Happy Christmas to all who celebrate the season! Ours was full of food, drink, family, celebration, travel, more food and some much needed time away from work. We started on December 2nd by decorating the whole house with Christmas details. A week and half later, we hosted a tacky Christmas sweater party and I'm pleased to announce that all who were in attendance were dressed with superb tackiness and that my new recipe for mulled wine was a hit! The next day I was off to Rocheport for a day of wine, Christmas martinis and cookie decorating with the girls - quite a cheer-filled weekend.

We followed traditions 25 years old for Saint Louis celebrations - Christmas Eve with my dad's side, new pajamas from mom afterward, Santa on Christmas morning, family prepared brunch and then festivities at my mom's side. JAM packed. Next stop? Bowling Green, Kentucky. We left the dogs with my mom and dad, who took very good care of them, and went to Kentucky where the pace slowed down a bit. We spent some time with Matt's mom and stepdad, Tony, and his sister, nephew and dad. The pace slowed down, but the food sure didn't! Tony shared a little of his Mexican heritage with us through some of the delicious meals of authentic Chilaquiles and Enchiladas - delicious. On top of this, Matt wanted to hit up all of his old haunts in Bowling Green, which involved more eating that I like to admit. One that I will fess up to and talk about in more detail is our trip the The Loveless Cafe during our day trip into Nashville (about an hour away from Matt's family).

Oh, Loveless Cafe... About a year ago, Matt and I saw the owner of this fine establishment on the Food Network show, Throwdown with Bobby Flay. She's famous for her biscuits and Bobby was there to challenge her. The show served as pretty stellar advertising and while I'm a sucker for a good biscuit, the whole place seemed full of southern charm. We vowed to make a pilgrimage to chow down during one of our trips to Kentucky/Nashville.

We hunted it down on the last day of our trip. After an hour and 15 minute wait, we were seated. Starving, we threw down coats, purses, gloves and tackled the menu. While I was practically salivating over all of the country-style goodness they offer, a man in his late fifties walked by and leaned in to ask, "Are ya comin' or goin'?" When he found out we had just been seated, he asked another question. "Can we join you? We'll buy your lunch!" Well, before I could even say a word, Matt had agreed and Val and Ed Wicker sat down to share a meal with us. At first I was miffed. I thought these two fogies were going to ruin my Loveless experience, but I was wrong. Ed was very confident (arrogant) and VERY used to getting his way, but also charming as all get out. He definitely worked his magic on us as we ordered, talked about where we're from, what we do - they even tried to help us decide on a honeymoon location. I'm intrigued by them and continue to think about their story. From New Orleans, they are well to do Southerners who were engaged only one month after meeting one another. Less than a year after meeting they were married and have been happy every since. She's a 1st grade teacher. He's in financial planning. They have two kids, two grandchildren and a beloved black lab they adopted after Hurricane Katrina. After a delicious free lunch and an hour or so of chatting with these two, I was thoroughly pleased with my Loveless experience and recommend it to all travel through Nashville.

Tacky Christmas - December 11th, 2009.


Handsome - Christmas Eve at Chipley's 2009.


New Pajamas!


Christmas Day at French's.


Loveless Cafe :-)


Tuesday, December 1, 2009

Thanksgiving Details

Matt and I were fortunate enough to make it to both Saint Peters, MO and Bowling Green, KY for the Thanksgiving Holiday break.  I'm still waiting on Matt to get me some pictures of his side of the family, but here's what I've got about the trip so far. 

It was Turkey Day and the gathering began.  There were smiles all around...

 


and the waving of hands.
                                                   


We got all dressed up...


to say "what's up."


There were daughters and mothers...



 and sisters and brothers.  


We're a family, you know. And that means lending a hand... 



before taking an after dinner nap.  


It means keeping out an eye....


or an ear...


and keeping everybody near.  


Hope you had a fantastic Thanksgiving :)

Saturday, November 21, 2009

Found a dress, found a dress, found a dress!  Done deal.  Scheduled to be shipped from the manufacturer on March 8th!  And the serendipity involved on the day I ordered it - oh my!

7:00am - My mother calls me and tells me she cannot come to Columbia over the weekend to look at the most recent dress I've found......but she can come today if I can do it before 2:00pm because she needs to be back in Saint Peters by 4:00pm.  Can I find a sub for the afternoon?  Sorry.  I work until 2:45.  Can't get off.  Maybe next Tuesday?

7:02am - A substitute walks in my classroom door and tells me there has been a mistake.  She's scheduled for the whole day, but only has to cover sixth hour.  Well I've got something you can do!  Cover my afternoon??

11:25am - Leave school, drive home, call The Villager on the way to make the ONLY appointment they have left all day - 1:00pm.  Just enough time. 

12:00pm - Quick lunch, let Olivia stretch her legs after the drive from Saint Peters.

1:00pm - Appointment with Katie at The Villager.  Try on the dress.  Love the dress all over again.  Mom loves the dress, Claire loves the dress.  Olivia thinks I look funny in my Spanx. 

1:40pm - Should I order it today?  On the cusp of two sizes.  Maybe wait until next month and measure again??  No - better safe than sorry.   I'll order today.  Yay.

1:45pm - Ordering.  Fill out forms.  Double check style number and color.  Manager checks in on Katie.  

1:46pm - Manager recognizes dress style number.  Nonchalantly - "Good thing you came in today.  It's the LAST day to order that dress."  WHAT.  Heart flies out of chest.  

1:47pm - Wait while manager orders dress while right in front of me.  Good, good.  Ordered.  Will be shipped to Columbia on March 8th!  Finally done.  

1:50pm - Celebratory ice cream at Sparky's. 

2:00pm - Send Mom, Claire and Olivia on their way back to Saint Peters.  

What if, what if, what if......





Saturday, November 7, 2009

Maids and Venues

I'm a few posts behind - this one and the next few should be backdated by about a week or two! 

It has been just over a month since our engagement and we're definitely in the planning mode for our wedding.  We're keeping up with work and family as best we can, but these days we're lucky if we see one another for dinner more than twice a week.  While we have a lot of ideas and checklists and phone numbers to call we really only have a few things nailed down.  I'm trying not to panic.  Matt is trying to keep me from panicking.  And we've set aside some time tomorrow to sit down and talk about some big decisions - with both of us in the same room.  

What we do have:

A budget
A date
A ceremony site
A reception site
Bridesmaids
Some groomsmen
And a lot of ideas for everything else!

I'd like to start turning some of those ideas into realities, but I've got to remember that I can't plan a whole wedding in one day (although I think I'd like to).  This is difficult for me.

With a wedding only 8 months away, one of my biggest priorities and time suckers is to find a dress. I've looked a lot online and I've gone out twice - neither time a success.  The first, because I didn't find anything I was thrilled about.  The second, because the woman helping was a heinous, rude and unhelpful person.  I DID find a dress I loved, but she neglected to tell me it was discontinued until I was already absolutely sold on that dress.  I'm trying to hold my tongue about her.  Needless to say, I will not be returning to the Gown House in Columbia in future searches.  

I was unable to take pictures when I asked two of the maids to be in my wedding, but Matt was able to snap a few of the sisters as I asked them.  I gave all six a hand-sewn card from my favorite downtown store, Poppy, with a little note, quote  or message from me inside.  At the end, each one said, "Will you be my bridesmaid/maid of honor?"  They were well-received by all.  I'm so glad to have my sisters and oldest friends stand with me on the big day.  





Tuesday, October 20, 2009